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Is it time to quit  blogging here at Last Mom?  I’ve been asking myself that question for months now.

I got busy with my new LuLaRoe business in the spring (and then even busier in the summer when the inventory arrived).  Starting this new business  Is it time to quit blogging?  has taken up pretty much every minute and thought I have.  However, as I’m move towards the year mark I’m making a conscious effort to regain some balance.

I miss writing. I’ve started pitching and submitting freelance work again.

However, while I’ve missed writing, I’m not sure I’ve actually missed BLOGGING Is it time to quit blogging?  . At least, not in the way I was doing it.

Putting it all out there for people to dissect is exhausting.

And after the extended time away, I’ve realized it wasn’t healthy for me.

I woke up January 1 and decided to quit blogging at Last Mom, but to keep the Last Mom Facebook page going. I have changed my mind about 6 million times back and forth since then.

I love the community of Last Mom readers. I am so proud we have helped so many foster and adoptive families Is it time to quit blogging?  feel not as alone. I beam when you tell me how my girl has inspired you and given insight into trauma  Is it time to quit blogging?  and child mental health. I will forever be grateful for your encouragement and support.

But this half a year without blogging much has shown me how healivly the judgement , criticism and mean comments that come with putting it all out there weighed on me. I’m tired of trying to write anonymously when I am all over the internet with my other writing, but I can’t completely “come out of the shadows” at on this blog because so much of what I have written is so deeply personal.

And Princess is sixteen  now.  I used to feel at least partial ownership of the stories and while she’s still fine with the blog, it just doesn’t feel the same to me now that she’s in high school.  Plus, there’s really not a whole lot to write about.  Trauma isn’t riding shotgun in our world any longer.  It’s not even in the backseat. It’s stuffed in the trunk under piles of typical teenager stuff.


So I’m kind of at a crossroads.  There is information about trauma, adoption, anxiety disorder, etc.  I think is valuable that I want to always make accessible.  I’m in the process of reverting all the posts to drafts (a long process since there are nearly 2,000 posts!).  Then I’ll go through them and decide what to do with them.

We haven’t disappeared.  We’re doing very well.  I post little snippets of our lives on Facebook most days, so come follow along over there while I decide what to do here.

I don’t think I’m going to completely quit blogging, but things definitely have to change for my own well-being.

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  1. I totally understand needing to quit or step back from blogging but you would be missed. At least we have FB. You could share funny stories about your fur kids right? 😉 Or your trips to the beach for those of us who are landlocked frustrated beach people. I miss it so much. You could talk about how much fun and or frustrating it was/is to start your business, tell about your new fitbit and eating or whatever. But then it’s also easy to do that on fb too…. hmmm

  2. I enjoy your blog but I understand. I have hardly posted anything on mine in months, it’s just that life gets in the way and I don’t think about it. I would miss your blog, but I understand completely.

  3. I would miss your blog. I think your story is rare and important. It’s made a big impact on me. I’m sure you still have so much to helpful stuff even while things are smoother. Good luck! I’m excited for you. Will follow on Facebook

  4. I miss your blog already, lol, I used to go on there every morning to see if it was updated yet and what you and Princess were up to. I love how well she’s doing and glad that the “need” isn’t there, but sure do miss all the updates, even in the smooth times….what life with a teen is like even without the trauma prevalant <3

  5. I totally understand what you’re going through. I used to blog and read other’s blogs all the time. Then I got involved in FaceBook trauma mama groups (including moderating a few), and my time for blogs got shorter and shorter. When I discovered my kids’ biomom was reading my blog, I freaked out and shut it down.

    I did decide to reopen it with the intent to focus on providing resources and advice for those parents still in the trenches. Now I mostly blog when a parent has a question I don’t know the answer to, with rare updates about my kids (who are now 18, 21, 22 and 24).

    I haven’t read your blog in quite awhile, but I’m glad to see you’re keeping it up. I signed up for your newsletter so I can keep up.

    If you’re interested in why I still blog or want to see the resources I’ve posted, feel free to visit me at

    Thanks again for being here and continuing to post. There aren’t a lot of parents posting about what’s going on with their teens and it’s a needed resource.

    Mary TheMom

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